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What to say when proposing to the woman of your dreams

People usually wonder about what to say when proposing. So normally we all tend to lean to the safe “Will you marry me?” question. But I usually find it so dated and boring.

You are taking a big step, dude! So its time to step it up. Let the woman you want to spend your life with have no reason to say no. So go all out and tell her in more than “will you be my wife” just how much you really want her to be your wife. Make it memorable.

How to propose with a bang!

1. There is no right thing or wrong thing about what to say when proposing

See, you don’t really need to overthink things. Just be your self and let that moment lead you. Speak from the heart. Let the words just flow. The thing with proposing is that if you have decided that you want to be with her for the rest of your life, then it means she has done things to make you feel that she also wants the same thing. So go for it.

2. Talk about experiences you have shared together

There are always some great things you have experienced together. Imagine the first time you met her. Lead with that. Point out the special things that happened that day. Or you can even throw in the awkward moments and tell her how feeling that nervous made you realize just how badly you wanted things to work out.

3. Tell her how much she means to you

If you are thinking about what to say when proposing, then she really means a lot to you. Ask yourself: “Why do I want this woman to be my wife?” It is an emotional time.  Then tell her things that will make her go “Ow!”

4. Talk about what you think a future with her will look like to you

Tell her about the things you will do to make your future rosy. Let her know the vision you have for the two of you and the future that lies ahead of you if she says “Yes”.

Whatever you say, make it count and let her remember the proposal for the rest of her life.


Is it worth having shisha pipes at your wedding?

It may seem like an awkward idea for some but for others is fascinating! More and more people are bringing hookahs on their weddings! This topic was originally suggested by, therefore, you guys should check them out and their amazing articles.

Why have a hookah at a wedding?

First of all, having a hookah at your wedding will make it unforgettable. Your guests will definitely remember this! Imagine you starting to blow some clouds after you say “I do”. Amazing right? Other than this, there are many other reasons that one would want to have hookahs at a wedding. Let’s see them:

It is inexpensive

You can easily buy some cheap hookahs or you can rent some at reasonable prices. It is definitely cheaper than what an open bar will cost.

Does not require extensive planning

All you need to do is to pick up some hookahs and maybe a professional that will be responsible for maintaining them and handling the shisha! This is definitely not dirty cheap; however, it is an amazing experience that is free from stress

Let your guests socialize

Remember that weddings are all about socialization between your guests. By offering them a hookah to share, it is a form of socialization. Hookahs are known of getting people together chilled and relax. The conversation will flow effortlessly if a hookah is around the corner.

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What is a perfect honeymoon destination for a newlywed couple?

What is a honeymoon?

Why do a fabulous wedding and not have money to go on a honeymoon? See, for me, a honeymoon is one of the greatest things a couple can gift themselves. If you are budgeting for a wedding, then a huge chunk of money should be allocated to it.

A honeymoon is a period or vacation a couple takes just after their wedding in order to celebrate their new phase in life, which is marriage in this case. Here, they get to leave the “world” behind and enjoy one another intimately and in seclusion.

These days, there are romantic destinations meant for newlyweds. In fact, if you employ the services of a wedding planner, it comes as a package.

Some people wonder. What is a honeymoon and why is it so important? Well, Its important for a couple to go on a honeymoon because it’s usually a nice breather after all the stresses of wedding planning and the wedding itself. Plus, if you are planning to have kids sooner, then you better take this time off for yourselves.

So what are the best places to go on a honeymoon?

Now, if you ask me, there is nothing as the best place. The perfect honeymoon destination is the place where a newlywed couple can enjoy themselves fully and just celebrate their love. It doesn’t really matter where you go. So long as you are in the company of your new partner then everything should be fine.

Some of the best places are tropical locations

If you are in the US, people automatically think Florida. And one of the places is Fort Lauderdale. How can you separate romantic from the oceanfront? Your toes will literally be in the sand. Here, you will get to enjoy the casual mojo-pork tacos as you sip some cold draft beer. Now that’s relaxation…

Jamaica! Jamaica! You will definitely have an experience of a lifetime. Life is pretty easy here. Here are some spots you can check out: Royalton Negril – they have an adult-only option. Then there is the adults-only Breathless Montenegro Bay and Resort where you and your new love can get pampered.

If you are the kind of couple that is active and loves the outdoors, then how about hopping on a plane to New Zealand? Word has it that it got some of the best camping spots. Plus they have extreme adventure packages available.

What is a honeymoon again? Where newlyweds can enjoy each other’s company together!

Writing your own wedding vows?

Tips for writing your wedding vows

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One of the most common questions we encounter as celebrants relate to the writing of wedding vows. Often couples find this to be the most stressful period of the whole ceremony as they not only have to fight a potential fear of speaking in front of a crowd but also must deal with the stress of ensuring that what they have to say to their partner is uniquely special. Below we provide some tips to help the bride and groom with this most crucial part of the wedding ceremony:

Same vows or different?

The first decision that can potentially make the task that much easier is deciding whether you and your partner will write separate vows or not. Some couples decide to write their vows together so that it is a surprise to others but not each other. This can help ease the stress on each other by cutting the job in half whilst also making it a good bonding exercise for the future bride and groom prior to the big day. However, many believe that individual vows, while more difficult, results in a more special, unique situation and that is perfectly understandable.

Look back on the relationship


If you decide to go down the path of writing your own unique vows we strongly encourage that you allocate some time with your partner to reflect on your past, present, and future. By sharing stories of memories past and what you mean to each other, and have done for each other, you can trigger on memories that you may not have remembered if this discussion was not to take place. Then utilize the ideas and feeling these memories produce when jotting down your vows.

Practice, practice, practice


Having written your vows and comfortable with the content, make sure to say them aloud. Practice in front of the mirror as if you are part of a debate or giving a speech to a large group. Doing so will ensure that you do not stumble too much, and that sentence expressed out loud make sense. Of course, remember it is 100% ok to stumble during the reading of your vows. This is an emotional time, and no one is looking for a performance of the standard from Winston Churchill, a wedding vow recited with crying, laughter and long pauses are the norm!

Seek out inspiration


If still struggling with the content of your vows, or unsure of the tone or flow that you are going for then consult the many resources that are out there to help you. A quick google search will uncover a multitude of vow templates from all types of different wedding ceremonies. Beautiful vows are littered all over Youtube and can provide you with the perfect inspiration to write your own. Don’t be ashamed to look elsewhere for ideas, this is precisely why these web pages exist!